I thought i would share i thought i had last night. Recently i have been spending at least 1 night a week sleeping with a femail friend of mine, and i mean sleeping with in litteral scence. It has happend regulaly for the last month and a half and it has become routine, friday pub after work, back to her's to have a smoke go to bed. But i have started questioning how healthy this really is. I am currently single and would not mind meeting someone, so i'm obviously at a place in my life where companionship is something i crave. There is no chance me and this lady are going to get it together based on many things, such as neither of us want to, so im asking myself if this co-dependance is a good or bad thing. If you spend the night with someone it is the second most intamate you can be, after sex, and possibly in a lot of cases it is more intimate and i dont think creating this kind of bond, where you miss someone, even though you don't want anything from the relatonship, is a good idea. I also think you can fall in to a comfert zone, where because you get that small hit of companionship, you no longer are that botherd about meeting someone and getting in a propper relationship. I have therefore made a decision to go cold turkey for a few weeks and what happpens (difficult with booze normally involved). I am also interested to see what her reaction will be, as im not going to say what im doing, im just going to not go to hers! I'll keep you posted.